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Smashing the F*cking Box!

If you’ve ever ready a business book or magazine, you have heard the overused cliche “outside the box”.

Now, while I find that phrase really annoying, the idea behind it makes sense.

In essence, it’s “breaking the rules”. And there’s a time and a place for that.

2 WAYS TO MAKE MONEY ONLINE

If you look at the core of making money online, there are really 2 ways..

1. You follow the rules
2. What rules?

And both of these can (and do) work.

Following the rules is safe. It won’t get you into trouble. And you can have somewhat predictable results.

If everyone is doing a “video sales letter” because they are converting better now, then you know a video sales letter will probably work well for you.

BUT – and this is a big-ass but…

You will also blend in with everyone else.

And when you choose to blend, it becomes more of a challenge to gain attention.

The path you choose depends on a few factors.

FACTOR #1: YOUR DNA AND RISK TOLERANCE

First, I believe we are all wired differently.

While I was a “good kid” growing up, I never liked being told what to do. I always tried to find different ways to get things done and would constantly challenge the norms.

When I was 12, I loved baseball cards but instead of selling them at card shows, I took out a space ad in a magazine (yes, at 12 years old) and sold cards through the mail. Screw waiting around and only reaching a few hundred people at a baseball card show – let me reach thousands in the baseball card magazines. People actually sent me cash in an envelope and I fulfilled right out of my bedroom!

How are you wired? Do you like to challenge the status quo?

FACTOR #2: YOUR COMPETITION

The more competition you have, the more difficult it is to stand out.

This requires you to get attention – and that usually means breaking more rules.

Think about how you can be different in terms of your web site design and graphics.

Different marketing methods.

Different front end offers.

Different price points and guarantees.

FACTOR #3: YOUR ABILITY TO LET IT GO

Never, and I repeat NEVER get emotionally attached to your products.

I’ve tried so many products and while a lot are a success, there are tons that fail. More than I can even remember. And I’ll continue to take chances and fail.

But I never sit around and mope. I get off my ass, dust myself off and get right back up. Then, I take a quick step back, analyze WHY it failed and learn from my mistakes. And you can bet I won’t make the same mistake twice.

If you are emotionally tied to your product, I don’t care if it’s your book or your membership site, you are screwed!

GET READY TO SMASH

Don’t just be “outside the box”… you should smash the f*cking box. And when you do that, you WILL have hits and misses. It’s all part of the game.

If you don’t fail – it means you aren’t smashing the box hard enough. You aren’t being different enough. And you aren’t doing anything new.

If your competitors are all charging $50 for a DVD and you charge $39.95, you aren’t really smashing the box… you are gently tapping it. Stop being such a wuss!

BUT – by offering 2 DVDs and giving it away for “free + shipping” to get people into your funnel, now you are making some noise. Now you are doing something different. And now you are becoming the leader and making your competition play catch-up.

Now get out there, think differently and smash the f*cking box!

And yes, I used the F-bomb a few times… I do this when I get emotional. If you find it offensive, then please get over it.

Hugs,
Ryan

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35 Responses to Smashing the F*cking Box!

  1. Quentin Pain January 23, 2012 at 3:09 pm #

    LOL Ryan. Oh yes I love that idea! Interestingly I have been preaching for years about not treating your business as personal (your point #3 about products), but instead understanding there is you, and then there is your business, and they are both separate.

    For me this makes business decisions real easy. If there is something in my business that is not working, I can get rid of it without getting emotional. It is the exact same idea you mention above.

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 3:12 pm #

      Hey Quentin,

      That’s a BIGGIE (not getting emotional with your products).

      It’s such much easier to do business.. and it doesn’t mean I don’t care, just that it’s business and you’ve gotta keep moving your feet.

      Thanks for contributing!

      Ryan

  2. Tanya January 23, 2012 at 3:10 pm #

    Great post Ryan – and yes it does take guts to be different from the competition! There are lots of ways to BE different though, and often it takes getting over *ourselves* to see that something we might not see in a good light (about ourselves) can actually be what does set us apart.
    I like that you are making your IC awesome AND accessible and not just blindly going down the $2k launch route (yawn….anyone else bored of seeing those yet?!!)

    rock on :-)
    cheers
    Tanya

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 3:20 pm #

      Thank you Tanya.

      And yes, it does take guts to be different and stand out. But the payoff is massive!

      I appreciate your support. I could have done the IC as a “$397 per month” too (and do just one call a month), but that’s just not how I roll :)

      Ryan

  3. Dan Solomon January 23, 2012 at 3:18 pm #

    So right Ryan! Too many people think their product is the entire business. When in fact they (the individual) are the business not the freaking product.

    If your product isn’t selling – tweak it, reformat it, repurpose it or make a new one.

    Quite crying about it and move on.

    Like they say, “dare to be different”

    Thanks Ryan for another motivating post.

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 4:31 pm #

      Hey Dan,

      Exactly – your product is NOT your entire business.

      Be different. Innovate and kick some ass!

      Ryan

  4. Bret Ferguson January 23, 2012 at 3:20 pm #

    As I was writing down some things for this week yesterday I wrote “Are you just another face in the crowd?” Realizing there is a sea of IMer’s out there and how am I going to stand out. (or how will anyone) So your message is timely and confirming! (Minus the “F” bombs)

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 4:32 pm #

      Hey Bret,

      Get out there and crush it.

      And throw in some F-bombs for good measure :)

      Ryan

  5. Nick January 23, 2012 at 3:22 pm #

    Poke the box, then smash the box. I like it!

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 4:33 pm #

      Absolutely Nick.

      And smash it to a thousands pieces!

      Ryan

  6. Mike January 23, 2012 at 3:25 pm #

    Ryan,
    As per usual your timing is impeccable. It is a real challenge to take the emotion out. Thanks for putting in your perspective.

    Warmest Regards
    Mike

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 4:34 pm #

      Hey Mike,

      You MUST remove emotion from your product.

      Care about your customers – but if your product isn’t working, do something else to fill their wants and needs.

      Rock ‘on
      Ryan

  7. Robert January 23, 2012 at 3:25 pm #

    Thx Ryan. Rawk On!

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 4:34 pm #

      You got it Robert!

      Ryan

  8. Chris Simmons January 23, 2012 at 3:26 pm #

    A truly hones post with 3 gamechanging tactics to jump start my profitable online business in 2012…
    Rock on…..

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 6:55 pm #

      Hey Chris,

      Now get on it and start smashing that box, my friend.

      Ryan

  9. Tom Justin January 23, 2012 at 3:32 pm #

    REJECTION! Being seen by others as a failure, that’s what I’ve found as the most likely reasons that many people play it safe in all areas of their lives.

    I was so interested in the topic that I did a seminar, then a book on it called, “How To Take No For An Answer And Still Succeed.” One of the themes in the book is, “If you haven’t been rejected lately you’re not living close enough to your potential.”

    In other words, SMASH the f*cking box!

    Also Ryan, I won’t leave a URL here, but if you’d like to offer your readers my free report titled, “How To Use The Power Of No,” I’ll be happy to give it to you.

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 6:56 pm #

      Hey Tom,

      Thanks for contributing and you are 100% right.

      “If you haven’t been rejected lately you’re not living close enough to your potential.”

      And yes, please send over that report!

      Best
      Ryan

  10. James Early January 23, 2012 at 3:34 pm #

    Ryan, you just helped me realize one of the reasons it has taken me so long to get my ideas translated into reality is because I have been trying to COPY what others, including you, have said I should do. Just copying is not the ticket because you are getting into the box at that point.

    You have to learn from others but then make it your own, be yourself, and go for it.

    Thanks as always,

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 6:57 pm #

      James,

      There’s definitely a time to model what’s working and there’s also a time to do the OPPOSITE of what everyone else is doing.

      Both can work – but I like to do the latter.. it always makes a bigger splash :)

      Ryan

  11. Stefan January 23, 2012 at 3:58 pm #

    Great post Ryan!

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 6:57 pm #

      Thank you Stefan – please help spread the word…

      Ryan

  12. Steve January 23, 2012 at 4:15 pm #

    I think about 90% or more of people who use the phrase think outside of the box half absolutely no clue where this comes from. It comes from a personality test that has been used for years. Only about 20% or so who take this test pass it.

    Here is a good explanation video (not mine) that I found:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SE5mHAEJ_iA

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 7:13 pm #

      Hey Steve,

      I might be one of the 90% who didn’t know where it came from :)

      But I still like “smash the f*cking box” better.

      Rock ‘on
      Ryan

  13. Beverly Butler January 23, 2012 at 4:27 pm #

    Great post as usual Ryan! I have always liked being different – but this will give me more to think about!

    BB

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 7:14 pm #

      Thanks Beverly.

      Be different, but also, be BETTER!

      Ryan

  14. Billy Beck III January 23, 2012 at 4:27 pm #

    AWESOME…that’s all I have to say.

    • Ryan Lee January 23, 2012 at 7:15 pm #

      Thanks Billy :)

      Ryan

  15. Rona Thau January 23, 2012 at 6:06 pm #

    u r the *f* bomb
    we are the ignition … (i can’t not think of i am the walrus ko ko ka choob)
    EXPERT texpert joking smokers

    laugh and move on
    when stuff tanks

    check.

    for me
    OUTSIDE the BOX doesn’t “bug” me as a phrase as much as “new paradigm” and a few others.

    and i love the *f* bomb. POW! (btw ryan~my last name, THAU rhymes with POW and WOW and …ciao for now!)
    xo

    i’ll prob be on the call on wed after take off ~COOL to be at 32,000 feet and on the inner circle call, right? yay iphone. hope to hear u then.

    2012 year of the water dragon is a new beginning for grasshoppers.

    “There is an even greater reason to rejoice. Ever since 1996 the year element has been in a destructive relationship with the fixed element of the animal sign. That is the longest unfavorable period in the 60 year cycle of Chinese Astrology, and that means a scarcity of good luck. The year 2012 is thus blessed not only by the lucky Dragon but also the end of that destructive cycle.”

    cool.
    <3 love, rona

  16. Soccer Instructor January 23, 2012 at 6:20 pm #

    Totaly agree
    BOX Rules need to be ….

  17. Dave Gardner January 23, 2012 at 6:39 pm #

    Here’s to smashing the Box Ryan!

    With so much out there these days and often much duplicate content, make sure you go above and beyond and be different….Offer them the 2 DVD’s plus the instant access, plus the MP3′s and you will smash the box and the ceiling on your way out of the room.

    Dave

  18. bjs380@gmail.com January 23, 2012 at 8:04 pm #

    Preach Ryan Preach (in my famous minister voice).

    But seriously, always a gem. One of the things I
    enjoy about your blog posts is that they are gigantic
    pattern interrupts. I find this a really interesting fact
    because rarely can a writer do that so frequently.

    Not to be a kiss ass…but that’s really impressive and
    I’m trying to model that in my writing.

    Cheers,

    Brad Spencer

  19. Luis Carrillo January 23, 2012 at 8:42 pm #

    LOVE IT!

    You are the Only one Who Makes the Rules, There are principles that should be in place, but besides that it’s your creative demon that will make you stand out!

    Dude you got me fired up, Just Fuck It and Take the Risk!

    Saw this video yesterday and it directly speak to what you wrote today: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAlzPgXb6rE

    Peace!

  20. Fazzer January 24, 2012 at 1:31 am #

    Smash that sucker!!!!!!!!!!!

  21. Wayne Shaw January 24, 2012 at 7:05 pm #

    What you believe you will do, either be stuck or go through. Overcome yourself, or behavior becomes habit only limiting; you!
    True words Ryan. We’re listening.

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